Amal 1
Whoever’s husband is displeased with her should read the following verses 11 times, blow on some sweetmeat or sugar and give him to eat. With the will of Allah he will become happy.
وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَنْ يَتَّخِذُ مِنْ دُونِ اللَّهِ أَنْدَادًا يُحِبُّونَهُمْ كَحُبِّ اللَّهِ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا أَشَدُّ حُبًّا لِلَّهِ وَلَوْ يَرَى الَّذِينَ ظَلَمُوا إِذْ يَرَوْنَ الْعَذَابَ أَنَّ الْقُوَّةَ لِلَّهِ جَمِيعًا وَأَنَّ اللَّهَ شَدِيدُ الْعَذَابِ (البقرة: 165)
Amal 2
Recite the following verse 99 times and blow on something sweet. Both spouses should eat from it. This should be done for 3 days.
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ (الروم: 21)
Amal 3
Read 786 times بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ and blow on water with the intention of strengthening the bond. Give this water to the husband to drink.
Amal 4
Read 7000 times يا وَدُوْدُ يا لَطِيْفُ and blow on something sweet. Both husband and wife should eat from it. Insha Allah they will become united.
Amal 5
يا مُغْنِي
keep the above name of Allah in one’s mind at the time of intimacy with one’s wife. Insha Allah, the wife will begin to love him much more.
Amal 6
Dua for uniting the hearts of spouses:
اللّهُمّ أَلِّفْ بَينَ قُلُوبِنا و أَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَينِنا وَاهْدِنا سُبُلَ السَّلَام ونَجِّنا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ الى النُّور وجَنِّبْنا الفَوَاحِشَ ما ظَهَر مِنْها وَ ما بَطَن و بَارِكْ لنا فِي أَسْمَاعِنا و أَبْصَارِنا وقُلُوْبِنا و أَزْوَاجِنا و تُبْ عَلَيْنا اِنَّكَ أَنْتَ التَوَّابُ الرَّحِيْم. وَاجْعَلْنا شَاكِرِيْنَ لِنِعْمَتِك مُثْنِيْنَ بِها قَابِلِيْها وأَتِمَّها عَلَيْنا
Translation: O Allah, unite our hearts and put right for us our mutual affairs. Guide us to the path of peace, release us from darkness to Your light, save us from obscene practices whether hidden or open. Bless us in our ears, eyes, hearts, wives and children and accept our repentance. Verily You are Most Forgiving Most Merciful. Make us thankful to You for Your favours that we may welcome it and be pleased to fulfil Your bounty upon us.
Hadhrat Moulana Aaaqil Saahib (damat barakaatuhum), a great Muhaddith of India and the son in law of Sheikhul Hadeeth, Hadhrat Moulana Muhammad Zariyya Kandelwi (Rahimahullah) mentioned that Allah Ta’ala has put great effect in this Dua.
People who are not getting along very well with friends and relatives, couples that are fighting and arguing regularly should read this dua in abundance.
He mentioned that one particular aalim had fallen into some family feuds and as a result was suffering much worry and grief. After reciting this dua several times, he was relieved of this grief.
Hadhrat Moulana also mentioned that once he was in Madinah Munawwarah and a woman met his family in the Haram Shareef at the time of Maghrib. She complained about her relationship with her husband saying that he has become very cold towards her on this journey and was not speaking to her at all. Hadhrat Moulana’s respected family taught her this dua and encouraged her to recite it regularly. The next morning at the time of Fajr when she met her again, this woman could not stop thanking her saying that her husband’s entire mood has changed and he has become very much warmer towards her.
By reciting this dua abundantly, Insha Allah the hearts of the Ummah will be united.
Amal 7
A person who has a very disobedient wife and he wants her to be obedient, then he should recite 1100 times the name of Allah يا مَانِعُ before retiring to bed. He should do this for 11 days. Insha’Allah his wife will become obedient. (Tibbee aur roohaani bhed pg76)
Remember 5 golden points for a happy home:
Salaam – when you enter the house, first make salaam
Smile – when you enter the house, enter with a smiling face
Gift – once in a while, bring a gift home even if it be something small
Good opinion – have good opinions of each other and avoid unnecessary suspicions
Compliment not criticize – when you see something good in your spouse compliment her for it, this will reinforce the good and when you need to correct then do it with love.